In order to change the world, we need to change ourselves first.

I was having a chat with a friend of mine the other day and he said…”Why do you always use every opportunity to say something good about yourself”? And I replied “of course, because I am Amazing” and he said…there you go again. In all Honesty, I didn’t think about the response it just came outta my head.

Now, this is not pride or any of sort but it is self assurance that I have studied over time in the bible and understanding what the bible says gives you a different view all together and trust me, the little I know of the bible says a whole lot. I Love anybody that knows what they carry in them – We are the salt of the earth; anyone who is confident and bold to accept what has been given to them. I am an Optimist and I have my moments of doubts sometimes, but it sure doesn’t last because it can only get better.


I look at myself in the mirror and all I see is beauty overdose, I see a woman who will change the world in every little possible way she can and it applies to my friends as well.
I once had a very intelligent boss who always says “in order to change someone, you have to change yourself first” this is very deep being that our tongue, our thoughts, our imaginations play a very vital role in who we are and who we become and it all starts with belief. So many of us are stuck in a particular position or circumstance because we have refused to believe it can get better and that pessimism draws us back to that negative circle.

I am not a motivational speaker but I feed off motivation because I really don’t have anything to lose, so positivity, optimism, hope and faith is all I have got and I practice it every single day of my life and yes it has taken me places I never imagined and given me satisfaction, fulfillment and tranquility over time which brings me to my point……….No one loves you more than you love yourself and you need to appreciate yourself and your efforts everyday and focus on the right energy. Rhonda Bryne wrote in her book (The Secret) that “Your life right now is a reflection of your past thoughts. That includes all the great things, and all the things you consider not so great. Since you attract to you what you think about most, it is easy to see what your dominant thoughts have been on every subject of your life, because that is what you have experienced”.

In order for things to start working the way you have envisaged then you need to focus your thoughts towards that and leave negativity behind because you cannot start the next chapter of your life if you keep rereading the last, so learn to cover all negative energy and pessimism with a mental of oblivion and just breathe and proclaim every and anything you have always wanted and it may be slow but you are surely drawing that magnetic force to locate you.